Uganda Threatens Death to Gays

I was so aghast at the headline I couldn’t believe it. Yes, Uganda is working on legislation that will make homosexuality not only illegal (with jail up to 7 years) but may be punishable by death. Are you kidding?
No unfortunately they are not. Uganda where wife inheritance is common as are second wives, mistresses and general scallywag sexual behavior wants to outlaw what they deem deviant sex.

For those who know me, my faith is integral to who I am. I wear the sign of the cross always as a means of identifying and being proud of my faith. However, when sanctimonious Christian groups go over from the U.S to stir up trouble and help enforce laws Christ himself would not approve of, I want to tear my hair out. I totally understand why Christians in this country have such a bad rep.

I am also a shrink as many of you know. It seems (if you read the article) that there is still a group of people who think that counseling will “cure” homosexuality. OMG! That is as backward as leeching people to get out the evil humours.We haven’t had that diagnosis since the 80′s. That’s like calling TB consumption.I know that Ugandans are using the latest Anti-Retrovirals to treat AIDS and that they have a rather good medical school in Kampala.

It seems to me that Uganda, Nigeria, Kenya and the rest of the African nations who want to hang, torture, jail or other punishments too unspeakable to mention here would be better served feeding their starving children and worrying about the widows.

The saddest thing for me is that when I return to Kenya in a couple of months, this subject is just not open for discussion. Worse still is that I will keep quiet about it (unless asked) because it would distract from my mission over there. I am a child of the 60′s. I still want to fight back, but I am also older now, and I pick my fights more judiciously. So I put it here, and hope that those of you who read this will at least care and maybe write your congress people or newspapers and not let this story die.
It’s going to be a long time before Gay Pride comes to Africa.

KAMPALA, Uganda – Proposed legislation would
impose the death penalty for some gay
Ugandans, and their family and friends could
face up to seven years in jail if they fail to report
them to authorities. Even landlords could be
imprisoned for renting to homosexuals.
Gay-rights activists say the bill, which has
prompted growing international opposition,
promotes hatred and could set back efforts to combat HIV/AIDS. They
believe the bill is part of a continentwide backlash because Africa’s gay
community is becoming more vocal.
“It’s a question of visibility,” said David Cato, who became an activist
after he was beaten up four times, arrested twice, fired from his
teaching job and outed in the press because he is gay. “When we come
out and ask for our rights, they pass laws against us.”
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The legislation has drawn global attention from activists across the
spectrum of views on gay issues. The measure was proposed in Uganda
following a visit by leaders of U.S. conservative Christian ministries that
promote therapy for gays to become heterosexual. However, at least
one of those leaders has denounced the bill, as have some other
conservative and liberal Christians in the United States.
The Ugan
dan legislation in its current form would mandate a death
sentence for active homosexuals living with HIV or in cases of
same-sex rape. “Serial offenders” also could face capital punishment,
but the legislation does not define the term. Anyone convicted of a
homosexual act faces life imprisonment.
Anyone who “aids, abets, counsels or procures another to engage of
acts of homosexuality” faces seven years in prison if convicted.
Landlords who rent rooms or homes to homosexuals also could get
seven years and anyone with “religious, political, economic or social
authority” who fails to report anyone violating the act faces three
years.
The bill is still being debated and could undergo changes before a vote,
which hasn’t yet been set. But gay-rights activists abroad are focusing
on the legislation. A protest against the bill is planned for Thursday in
London; protests were held last month in New York and Washington.
Influenced by Western lifestyle?
David Bahati, the legislator sponsoring the bill, said he was encouraging
“constructive criticism” to improve the law but insisted strict measures
were necessary to stop homosexuals from “recruiting” schoolchildren.
“The youths in secondary schools copy everything from the Western
world and America,” said high school teacher David Kisambira. “A good
number of students have been converted into gays.

Uganda’s ethics minister, James Nsaba Buturo, said the death sentence clause would probably be reviewed but maintained the law was necessary to counter foreign influence. He said homosexuality “is not natural in Uganda,” a view echoed by some Ugandans.

“I feel that the bill is good and necessary, but I don’t think gays should be killed. They should be imprisoned for about a year and warned never to do it again. The family is in danger in Uganda because the rate at which vice is spreading is appalling,” said shopkeeper John Muwanguzi.
Uganda is not the only country considering anti-gay laws. Nigeria, where homosexuality is already punishable by imprisonment or death, is considering strengthening penalties for activities deemed to promote it. Burundi just banned same-sex relationships and Rwanda is considering it.
You can read the whole article on MSNBC/Africa
 

Sometimes the News is Good

Here in the U.S people are recovering from Black Friday. I read that one woman missed Thanksgiving entirely so she could be first in line at a Best Buy; however her family did bring her turkey and pie while waiting in line. Here in D.C the town is abuzz about the couple who sneaked into the White House State Dinner, seems in their climb to notoriety has revealed their rather shady past. Ah, small news day today.

However, the Daily Nation did have a great story about kids in Kogelo part of the area we work in. They have fired off their first email to President Obama asking him to do something about global warming. I’m delighted to see that progress, though, it is a school supported by the Obamas. In any event I give you today’s good news from Kenya.

News
Kogelo learners send first email to Obama

Pupils and students at the Senator Obama schools in western Kenya on Friday sent their first emails using solar energy to United States President Barack Obama. Photos/DAN OBIERO

Pupils and students at the Senator Obama schools in western Kenya on Friday sent their first emails using solar energy to United States President Barack Obama. Photos/DAN OBIERO
Posted Friday, November 27 2009 at 16:32

Pupils and students at the Senator Obama schools in western Kenya on Friday sent their first emails using solar energy to United States President Barack Obama.

The messages appealed to the president to champion renewable energy at the Copenhagen climate summit in 10 days.

“Please President Obama do some­thing. We just want to ask you to help other children all the over the world to access solar power. Teacher Ann sees a connection of climate change and the drought in Kogelo village and said that solar power is a solution to climate change. Help protect the climate, this is our future,” read the message from the excited pupils.

Simple request

They told him that had it not been for solar power, they would not have afforded to reach him.
In a separate email, secondary school students had a simple request. They asked Mr Obama to use his “great office to encourage the utilisation of renewable energies such as solar power.”
“We want other students in communities similar to ours to enjoy their education like we do here in Kogelo,” they said.
Solar power at the schools, Senator Obama Nyangoma Primary and Secondary in Kogelo, was installed in August 2009. The schools are a stone’s throw from President Obama’s grandmother Mama Sarah’s house. She also has a solar panel and charges the mobile phones of her young neighbours. (Agencies)

 

In Case You Didn't Know

We traveled a long time for our 2 hour meeting. And we weren’t in Africa. I was greatly heartened that so many of my board and one of our research team was willing to journey to Philadelphia, by train and plane, to meet for 2 hours with Monica Oguttu my counterpart in Kenya. Mama KMET, as she is called, is an impressive woman overflowing with ideas and ways to help the disenfranchised women of Kenya. She also spends a good deal of time in the Sudan.
It was good to see my Dada (sister) again and we laughed when we were alone. We laughed for the joy of seeing each other, and for the knowing that Americans know next to nothing about what happens in the place she and I call our heart home. Just going to the bathroom is an experience which we take for granted. Everything here is automatic, the flusher, the amount of soap, the amount of water, the towels.Our obsession with cleanliness is no better showcased than in our public toilets. In Kenya there are no public toilets, there’s rarely soap or towels, and frequently the flushing of the toilet is accomplished by pouring water into the back of the john, if there is even a receptacle other than a hole.
The gathering was quite successful and I believe we have a better understanding of where we want to go next. How we shall fund it is still in God’s hands.
So this morning I was reading the Nation and saw this article, and I wondered if anyone knew about this. 10 years ago it was quite chic to care about Darfur and the Sudan, now they are just part of the abyss of suffering and drought that is called Africa. However, in my eternal desire to keep at least my readers up to date, read on McDuff.
The Nation
By WALTER MENYAPosted Monday, November 16 2009 at 12:44

In Summary

The government of Sudan has now opened voter registration centres in three Sub-Saharan countries previously left out by the National Elections Commission.

Sudanese nationals in Diaspora will now be able to register and participate in the 2010 elections from South Africa, Kenya and Uganda. Another centre has also opened in Malaysia bringing the countries identified by NEC for the exercise to 14.

And on Monday, hundreds of Sudanese nationals living in Kenya thronged the country’s embassy in Nairobi to beat the November 30 deadline set by the National Elections Commission.

Speaking after launching the exercise, Sudan ambassador Mr Majok Guandong denied the opening of the centres was a response to the pressure from the South.

“The Sudanese in Diaspora have a right to take part in the elections which the government and NEC recognise,” said Mr Guandong.

The Government of Southern Sudan had two weeks ago threatened to boycott elections if certain conditions were not met.

One of the conditions according to the head of mission of the Southern government in Nairobi John Duku was opening registration centres in Kenya, Ethiopia, Uganda, Congo-Brazaville and the Democratic Republic of Congo where Mr Duku stressed hosts many South Sudanese refugees.

Mr Duku had said the South was unimpressed with the way the North was conducting the voter registration exercise that started November 1 to run for 30 days.

The list of eligible countries initially distributed to Missions abroad included Kuwait, United Arab Emirates, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Qatar, Sultanate of Oman, Bahrain, the UK, Belgium (for all Western Europe) and USA.

 

A Good Dog Day

On Friday I was interviewed by a writer who rode his bike across the U.S with a charity called Go the Extra Mile. I had watched him interview another young woman who clearly struggled with her life, but loved what she did. She even cried a little while describing her work with autistic children and horses. It was heartwarming in that way that news people love and cameramen want to poke mikes in your face.

I was next up. I had been having a very busy but good dog week. Just back from Puerto Rico, busy with clients and readying for back to back meetings for One Village on Sunday. I bellied up to the table, even spoke French to the cameraman (he was French) and answered questions. “Had I ever been afraid for my life?” Yes.
Why would I think of going back…blank stare from me..see this where I just don’t fit in I guess. It never dawned on me not to go back, One Village is what I’m supposed to do. He asked me if I’d always been such a maverick and I had to say yes..it would be one of the main reasons my marriage to Dr. Conservative failed. Then the final question, “How would I describe my life?” to which I answered “I’m dancing in the light. It’s as sweet as life could get.” And he was done. I was of no interest to him.

Here’s the deal, I get to work with the most amazing people on this planet. The research team who is writing a grant to improve healthcare in Kenya, came together 4 weeks ago. They are cranking out a grant with the grace and style of a finely honed surgical team. And they only met each other 4 weeks ago. As I watch the emails fly past me, everyone helping each other, I can get incredulous that I get to be part of this, or just downright joyful that somehow I get to put people together and get to watch them be the very best of who they are.

I’ve got a Board of Directors that any E.D should kill for. They are bright, creative, enjoy each other and really dig in. I think I told the bike guy this in the context of what’s wrong with most charities today. Most charities have people my age on the board. They sit on lots of boards, each other’s boards blah blah blah. They do it cuz it makes them feel important. However they don’t change things, they don’t think outside the box, they don’t challenge the E.D to be the very best she can do for fear she will let them down. If you get to be the very best of who you are, if you get to watch people gel and become friends and make a difference in this world, what’s not to love?

So what I’m sayin’ is that it’s pretty cool to be me, and I’m having a really really good dog day.

 

Be A Raindrop


Be A Raindrop!

The news in Kenya just gets worse. Some protesters have wrecked some of the railway between Nairobi and Kisumu. Odinga has called off the rallies and is now calling for boycotts. The only people being hurt in all this is the poor. The politicians are still holding their jobs, but because of the riots, “rallies” and boycotts the shops must close, the roads are not safe, the supplies are not getting through, and the people are hungry. Prices for everything have gone through the roof in every area. Angry people have burned the crops and the earth. I just realized that the grain we were going to buy for the second half of the year to feed the children is going to be double the price at least. I guess I’d better get busy raising the money. (And it’s not that much folks. To double what we give the schools means I have to raise another $5000).
So many have asked me about how One Village at a Time got started I decided it was time today to talk about hope and faith. We can always come back to tough stuff. I’m not going to forget it and neither will you.
In 2002 My assistant pastor asked me to go give a talk for her in Ethiopia. It was for an AIDS conference, but she couldn’t go what with her being South African and our government’s fears of all things African. She was afraid they wouldn’t let her back into the country.Oh and she does have 2 children here in the states. So of course Mother M said yes. Doesn’t everyone just pick up and toot off to Ethiopia? It was a real garden spot after 911 right? Long and short of it, after the shots, the visas etc,pastor didn’t write the paper, but I went anyway. I figured I would figure it out when I got there. I am a woman of faith.

Two days into the conference and I still wasn’t sure why I was there. In truth I was the only honky social worker amongst hundreds of well educated women theologians from all over Africa. While seated in my group they passed around condoms (male and female) and the women didn’t know what they were or how to use them. So I wound up doing an AIDS training with no “models” (read black dildos) nor drawings of the female anatomy. I used bananas and melons and you can just figure out how that worked.

The following day we drove to see the head of the Blue Nile and Debre Libanos, the oldest church in Christendom. As we drove into this exquisite countryside, a faint mist dampening the windshield, we saw only vacant huts (we call them shambas in Kenya). The roads were strangely barren of the usual hordes of people who walk them carrying their bundles on their donkeys or more impressively on their heads. I turned to the driver to ask, and then it hit me. AIDS they were all dead from AIDS. Indeed in that part of Ethiopia the infection rate was over 30%.

My heart sank. Here I was thinking I was going to make this huge difference in people’s lives, and the vastness of the problem led me to despair. Who was I do make any change? What could I possibly do one lone woman trying to teach and hoping to help children? I was a social worker from Boston, and I swore Africa was the last place I wanted to visit. Ha! Slowly I understood His message: “Be a raindrop, I will bring the rain.”
Christ didn’t say “I can’t Lord, there are just too many lepers!” Moses didn’t say ” No can do, too many slaves can we cut them down to a manageable size”. See they understood all they had to do is be a raindrop, albeit a mighty fine one and God would do the rest.

What I have learned is that there are many folks with really good hearts that want to do something for the planet, but either they get overwhelmed with the problem or they want to do it by themselves and yesterday would be their time schedule. Maybe it’s working in Africa and seeing people lead their lives with such grace, maybe it’s learning that it is always His way not my way that has helped me understand this concept. We have to have faith that we are all raindrops and our job isn’t to fix the world, but to join with others and maybe make a little puddle, but ultimately have faith that God will clean it up.

I end with another poignant letter from one of my friends who managed to write me today. I’m going back to our beloved Kenya in March and I pray there I will find downpours.

“We are kept safe by the Lord of Hosts, who watches over us, in spite of all the violence in the country. We pray that our leaders would resolve this terrible conflict in our beloved nation. It is like Hell has poured its fury on us Kenyans. Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers. Please relay my regards to Scott & the Church. Hopefully when you come in March our nation will have returned to normalcy.”
best regards,

Be good to each other y’all. And don’t be afraid to be a raindrop.
MM